Secret engagement should stay secret awhile longer - Chron.com

Dear Abby: I have been dating my boyfriend, "Derek," for four years. I'm turning 21, and although that may be old enough for some people to get married and have kids, it scares the heck out of me. I love Derek, and I want to marry him one day. We don't have a ring yet, and we agreed we wouldn't tell our families until we get one. I need a second opinion and some advice on whether to wait to tell anyone or tell people now. When the time is right, the idea of marriage and children will make you feel happy, not frightened. That's why you and Derek should remain in a holding pattern until you are more confident about what you want to do. Dear Abby:. Guys find my friends prettier than me. For a few years, I have been thinking about getting a nose job. My parents say I need to wait for all my facial features to adjust to my growing body to prevent facial disfigurement in the future. When is the right age to get a nose job. You didn't state your age, but I don't think your parents are stalling. According to WebMD, it is very important that before a young person has a nose job the facial bones have reached "adult size. Source: www.chron.com